The thing about self love is that it’s not this moment of enlightenment when you look in the mirror and the sun finally emerges from behind the storm and your eyes can see through the fog of the lies that you’ve grown to believe. It’s not a breathtaking moment of clarity that changes everything and that you can never come back from.
It’s living with yourself for awhile.
It’s listening to your own laugh, knowing the difference between the forced laughter and the easy laughter, and being able to see the importance in both. It’s sitting outside in the rain, listening to it, or just watching the rain from behind your window—but knowing that either of these choices can be good for you.
It’s like being married, being in love. It’s knowing that the other person isn’t perfect but that you need to make it work, and that you have to actively strive for it.
It’s accepting there are things inside and out that you’ll never like. It’s acknowledging the way your smile is crooked or your waist curves differently on either side or that your thighs are round, and that sometimes you’re a little snarky, but being willing not to put a requirement on what these ought to be instead.
It’s knowing that some days you’ll wake up and the fog will be back in your eyes but knowing that if you drive far enough, it’ll be clear.
Self love is like growing to love anyone. It’s not a huge aha moment in the same way that love will not always be fireworks and whirlwind romance. Some days it will be hard. Most days it will be slow. But everyday it will be worth it.
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Forget what my stomach looks like in a bikini or what my thighs look like in shorts. I want my plate to be colorful for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I want to run a mile and feel like running 10 more afterwards. I want to feel like I’m filled to the brim with energy all day long. I just want to be healthy.
I got hired at Starbucks without even applying because I go there so often and it wasn’t even a joke
I was in Starbucks
And the manager walked up to me and said, “Hey do you want a job?”
And I said, “Here? For real?”
And yeah. Basically I start in two weeks.
Hey that happened to me too!!!
Oh my goodness!!!! It’s the weirdest thing!!!